We are committed to shining a light on the difficulties facing our armed forces, veterans, and blue light communities. One area of deep concern is suicide.

Official statistics currently suggest that suicide rates within the armed forces community are lower than the general population, and for many who follow our page or who are part of this community, this feels improbable. Especially when sister nations such as the United States report significantly higher suicide rates among both serving personnel and veterans.

There may be several reasons for this disparity. In some cases, suicides may be miscategorised under terms such as “misadventure.” In others, the fact that the individual was a member of the armed forces or veteran community may not be captured at all. Both possibilities mean the official figures may not reflect the true scale of the issue.

We know that if you are completing this form, it may be because you have lost a loved one, a close friend, or a colleague. This is never easy, and we are deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you are not alone.

The purpose of this form is not to intrude, but to ensure that every life is counted. By sharing with us, you are helping to build a clearer picture of the scale of this issue. One that can be used to push for better recognition, better support, and ultimately, changes that save lives.

Nothing you tell us will be passed on to official channels. Your personal details (name and email address) will only be kept long enough to process the information you’ve shared and then deleted from our systems.

This form is not a substitute for formal reporting. It is a confidential way for families, friends, and colleagues to make sure the reality of what is happening is not hidden or overlooked.

We understand that filling this in may be painful, and we are grateful for your courage in doing so.